Sadly the ones causing all this damage are not the average gay people just wanting to get married.. The terrible crap is coming from a extremist groups pushing for things like genderless children..safe schools.. Loss of parental rights and only being parent 1 and parent 2..and so on.. It's all these groups that are using the marriage equality to slip their sordid stuff into everyone's lives..Especially our children.. But they won't be our children because if you disagree the schools will deem the child mature minded and you will lose your rights to choose.