Don't quite understand your reasoning. Are you speaking for yourself or projecting your feeling for a cause. There are many reasons for sadness, loss of a child, a spouse or a partner. I wouldn't want to be in a place where people discriminated against me for say being conservative and voting Brexit but ah, that would be OK wouldn't it. Sorry my best friend is gay and I love gay men. I also feel for transsexual people. I wouldn't like to be in a place where people swore every other word or who were crude but that's just how I feel. I hope I never need to be in an institution but people are lonely from all walks of life not just in one very small section of society. It's people who are important and who they are inside that matters and when you get older you realise that is the only thing that matters.