in no way is this question judgmental or am I being nasty my question is ... if you are born a man how can you know you should be a woman if you don't know what it feels like to be a woman? And vice Versa? I have asked this question before and no one has ever answered it. I have a live and let live attitude to life, that said I don't believe that tax payers money should pay the price of the operations and medical bills of those that decide to change themselves x