A good Church is bible based and reflects every aspect of whats written. It does not pick and choose which scripture to follow or disobey to fit into their own lives, or whatever has become acceptable to the world. Its leaders (still human and sinners) are suppose to be the example, so (unfair as it may be) held to a higher standard. Its a complete contradiction and hypocrisy to purposely lead your congregation into beliefs that go against THE WORD you are preaching.