It would certainly depend on their attitude.I have colleagues in work who are complete assholes and I tell them in no uncertain terms to f--k off or mind your own business.Look I don't take any shite from anybody and I tell my children to do the same.My young fellow was being bullied in school we approached the principal and the bullies mother with no success.I told my 12 year old he had my permission to punch this bully in the face.Following day my son punched his bully in the face.No more bullying.He was suspended from school for a week but it changed his life.Moral of the story.Don't take any shite from any body.I find that people make victims of themselves.I t is your own fault.Get up and stand up.I'm done here.