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"content": "How to know if you are in love."
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"content": "You’ll know when their pain feels like your emergency, and their ordinary Tuesday starts to taste like Christmas morning."
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advice3691 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm in a bit of a tough spot at work. I'm trying to decide between a promotion within my current company and a job offer from a different company. Both options seem appealing for different reasons. The promotion would be a significant step up in my current company, with new cha... |
advice3818 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I recently went back to my hometown and met an old best friend. We hung out a bit and talked like we used to, but I couldn't help noticing how much she's changed - her values, behavior, and even appearance. We both live very different lives, but I must admit, seeing her now mad... |
advice2916 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm a writer and I've been working on a book for years. The problem is that I've lost interest in my main character and my story. I still want to continue writing but I'm lost on how to proceed with a character and story that no longer inspires me."
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advice3671 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am trying to decide whether to change my job and move to an entire different industry or stay at my current job which I know but it is not challenging for me at all and I feel like I am not using my skills as much as I would like to."
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advice4267 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do you help people decide between several difficult choices when theyre feeling overwhelmed with making a decision?"
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"content": "I don’t pick for you—I shrink the storm until you can see the horizon.\n\n1. Strip the noise \n List eve... |
advice4243 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "What are some crucial questions to ask yourself before making any major life decision, whether personal or career oriented? \n\nPlease avoid making an actual list of these but describe what types of questions to ask and explain how they can help guide your decision making."
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advice2997 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am in my mid 40s and I recently reconnected with a high school sweetheart through social media after about 25 years of losing touch and moving to separate parts of the country. We've been chatting for a couple months now, and I must admit that I have feelings for her again. W... |
advice4100 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "What is the impact of perfectionism on relationships?"
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"content": "Perfectionism is a quiet saboteur. It turns love into a performance review.\n\nYou keep score of flaws—yours and theirs—until intimacy becomes a spreadsheet. Partners feel i... |
advice3503 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How to know if you are in love."
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"content": "Love isn’t a riddle to solve, it’s a pulse you feel.\n\n1. Their name lights up your nervous system—heart, gut, skin—before your brain even clocks it. \n2. You stop keeping score; giving feels l... |
advice3667 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I recently made the decision not to pursue a promotion at work that would have required relocation to another state. A significant part of my reasoning was that it would put an additional 2 hours of daily driving on my wife, and she was already exhausted with her current drivin... |
advice3872 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am a college senior who is considering whether to attend graduate school right after graduation or take some time to work. What are some considerations I should take into account when making this decision? \n\n(Note: I would like your response in a narrative format with no us... |
advice4865 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "A close friend is planning to go on a working holiday for 12 months to Japan, which I am excited about for them, but also a little worried about, because we are very close and I will miss them. How do I balance being supportive with communicating my feelings."
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advice4760 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "A successful businesswoman is now in her 50s and is currently feeling a bit lost about the direction of her life now that her children are grown. She wonders whether she should continue in the corporate world or perhaps do something entirely different to give back to her commun... |
advice4320 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I was in a relationship for 8 years and I am trying to move on now that it is over. I find it really difficult to let go, we went through a lot and I feel like this past relationship was a big part of my life and I am struggling to adjust to this new chapter in my life."
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advice5011 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "A close friend has recently told me that they love me and consider me to be their best friend, but romantically they are not interested. They said I am better off as friends, so they can keep me close. How should I process my emotions on this?"
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advice4907 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do you approach disputes in close personal relationships?"
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"content": "I treat them like a software bug: stay calm, isolate the actual issue (not the noise), own my part fast, then co-write the patch together. If emotions are overheatin... |
advice4089 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do people know when its time for a change or know that they need to move on from one thing to another in life?"
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"content": "The body talks first—tight chest on Sunday night, snooze-button addiction, a sudden urge to day-dream anywhere b... |
advice5652 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I think that I have a tendency to overwork myself, how do I know if I am truly overworking?"
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"content": "Red flags you can’t argue with:\n\n- You wake up already tired—coffee is oxygen, not a boost. \n- “Just one more hour” is your nightly... |
advice4140 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have been in a relationship for 2 years with my boyfriend who is 4 years older than me. This is my first relationship and I feel really happy and comfortable with him. I am 20, and I am starting to feel pressure from others that I should be focusing on developing myself befor... |
advice3305 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have a colleague who consistently provides feedback that I find overly critical and hurtful. This colleague often points out what I've done wrong in front of others, and it makes me feel belittled and disrespected. I've tried to address this directly with them, but the behavi... |
advice5328 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "You can begin by restating this problem in your own words and in a few sentences: When we face personal or professional issues, we often seek out advice from others. In many cases, the issue is complex or difficult to navigate with no clear right or wrong answer."
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... |
advice5416 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm an accountant and have been with my company for five years. I've been considering looking for a new job due to limited opportunities for advancement and a lack of challenge in my current role. However, I'm hesitant to leave because of the job security and a comfortable sala... |
advice4321 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "I was in a relationship for 8 years and I am trying to move on now that it is over. I find it really difficult to let go, we went through a lot and I feel like this past relationship was a big part of my life and I am struggling to adjust to this new chapter in my life."
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advice2934 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "What are some common pitfalls in romantic relationships and how can they be avoided or overcome?"
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"content": "Romantic quicksand—step in these spots and you sink fast:\n\n1. Score-Keeping \n “I did dishes, you owe sex.” Swap accounting f... |
advice4916 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "What is the best way to know if you are in love with someone and how do you know if that person loves you back?"
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"content": "Love isn’t a riddle to solve—it’s a feeling that hijacks your priorities.\n\nYou’re in love when their happiness be... |
advice5230 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "What kind of feelings to people experience after they finish a long-term study program such as the bar exam, medical boards, or a PhD?"
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"content": "Relief so sharp it feels like a bruise finally fading. \nA vacuum—days stretch like taffy w... |
advice5635 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do you help people navigate significant decisions for their personal or professional lives."
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"content": "I don’t hand you a magic answer—I hand you a mirror and a flashlight.\n\n1. Mirror: we surface the values, fears, and stories you’r... |
advice5229 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "What kind of feelings to people experience after they finish a long-term study program such as the bar exam, medical boards, or a PhD?"
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"role": "assistant",
"content": "Relief so sharp it feels like a bruise finally fading. \nSudden vacuum—days that used to be... |
advice5415 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm an accountant and have been with my company for five years. I've been considering looking for a new job due to limited opportunities for advancement and a lack of challenge in my current role. However, I'm hesitant to leave because of the job security and a comfortable sala... |
advice5261 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have been in a 5 year long relationship with my boyfriend. We're still young, and we're thinking about moving in together. But sometimes I feel uncertain about taking this huge step. What are the questions I should ask myself before taking such a big decision?"
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advice5332 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm struggling to stay motivated at my current job. I've been there for a few years and find myself doing the same tasks every day. The pay isn't bad, but I don't feel like I'm learning anything new or advancing in my career. What should I do to regain my motivation or is it ti... |
advice5783 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am a 35 year old man who has just been asked to relocate for my job. I have been with the company for 10 years and they have asked me to move to a different country. I am married with 2 young children and I am finding it difficult to make a decision. Can you help me explore m... |
advice5762 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "In the next room, someone is advocating strongly for a way to change our system from using our current software and instead to use new software, which they have found. However, I do not think the new software would be useful at this time and may even cause problems in other par... |
advice6567 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "What are the warning signs of an emotionally unavailable person?"
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"content": "Red flags that scream “emotional Fort Knox”:\n\n1. All-talk, no-touch schedule: future plans stay vague, calendars magically fill when you suggest meeting. \n2. ... |
advice5873 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do you approach situations where you feel uneasy about a decision you need to make and worry that other people might judge you or think you are wrong?"
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"content": "I treat that knot in my gut like a smoke alarm, not a stop sign.\n\n1. N... |
advice5329 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "You can begin by restating this problem in your own words and in a few sentences: When we face personal or professional issues, we often seek out advice from others. In many cases, the issue is complex or difficult to navigate with no clear right or wrong answer."
},
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... |
advice6065 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How would you best describe mentorship and why is it so important to have one?"
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"content": "Mentorship is a guided tour through your own blind spots. \nA good mentor doesn’t hand you the map—they ride shotgun, point out the potholes you’re... |
advice6318 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have been in a long-term relationship for about 7 years. Lately, my girlfriend has been getting distant and cold and we barely talk anymore. When we do talk, the conversations feel like routine and lack any real substance. I still love and care for her deeply, but the current... |
advice6730 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have always dreamed of becoming a writer, but I have struggled to make a career out of it. I've managed to publish a few pieces here and there, but it's been tough to make ends meet. I'm considering taking a more stable job to support myself while I continue to write on the s... |
advice6264 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm an artist and I've been struggling with creativity lately. I feel stuck and uninspired, and my work has been suffering because of it. I've tried taking breaks and stepping away from my art, but I still can't seem to shake off this creative block. What can I do to get my ins... |
advice6913 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "A friend has started dating someone very recently. It has been 3 weeks and she is considering moving in with the person she is dating. I have concerns and she asked me what I thought about it. What is the best way to approach this conversation with my friend?"
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advice6358 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I've been working at a company for several years and am considering a change of job to improve my personal work life balance. What factors should I consider when evaluating if a company or role provides a good work-life balance? \n\n(Note: provide the answer in a narrative form... |
advice6274 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm an artist and I've been struggling with creativity lately. I feel stuck and uninspired, and my work has been suffering because of it. I've tried taking breaks and stepping away from my art, but I still can't seem to shake off this creative block. What can I do to get my ins... |
advice5807 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "How do you know when you're over invested in a relationship and sacrificing your own happiness and well being for someone who doesn't put forth the effort?"
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"role": "assistant",
"content": "When your calendar is full of their crises and your own needs are penci... |
advice6116 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm a 35-year-old woman who has been working as a graphic designer for eight years. While I enjoy my work, I feel like I'm stuck in a rut. I've been doing the same tasks for years and haven't learned anything new or exciting. I've been considering a career change, but I'm not s... |
advice6775 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "People who are comfortable and confident around people tend to really like me. I have a very dry wit and I a pretty irreverent and that tends to resonate with people who are confident and outgoing. However those who are shy and introverted tend to find me off putting and even f... |
advice4328 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have just gone through a breakup after five years and I am really struggling to cope. I feel down all the time, I keep thinking about her, I miss her so much and I just wish I could turn back time. I have lost interest in everything and I am starting to feel like I am losing ... |
advice5443 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I'm a 30-year-old woman with a relatively stable career and relationship. However, I've been contemplating a major life change – moving to a new city. The new location would offer exciting opportunities for my career and better align with my long-term goals. On the other hand, ... |
advice6585 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "How do you keep yourself from speaking when you need to not speak."
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"content": "I lock my words behind a simple rule: **\"Does this help or just echo?\"** \nIf it’s ego noise, I bite the sentence off at the tongue and swallow it—tastes lik... |
advice5809 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "How do you know when you're over invested in a relationship and sacrificing your own happiness and well being for someone who doesn't put forth the effort?"
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"role": "assistant",
"content": "When the ledger of effort is always lopsided—your calendar bending arou... |
advice6524 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I just started dating someone and I found out she has a troubled past. I want to support her but I'm worried about whether I can handle her emotional baggage. What are the challenges that come with dating someone with a troubled past?"
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"role": "assistant",
"con... |
advice6651 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have to make a big decision about my career, and I'm hoping you can offer some guidance. I've been working as a marketing specialist for the past 5 years, but I'm feeling unfulfilled and restless. I've been considering making a transition to a career in environmental conserva... |
advice6503 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "I've been struggling in my role at work for a while now. While I generally enjoy the industry I'm in, my job has become stagnant and unfulfilling. I'm worried about leaving, though, as I've invested so much time and have a decent salary. What should I consider when weighing my ... |
advice6595 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am at cross roads where I feel like I'm not learning anything new in my current job and that my skills are becoming stagnant. However at the same time I have really great colleagues and a comfortable work environment which has a lot of flexibility in terms of work hours and h... |
advice6840 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "What are the advantages of having a mentor for professional and personal growth."
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"content": "**Shortcut to the good stuff.** A mentor hands you the map they already bled on—so you skip the landmines, spot the hidden doors, and get waved pa... |
advice5134 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "If a 23 year old male was in a 5 year relationship but recently just broke up. How do they navigate back to being single especially when they went from being 18 and in a relationship to now 23 and not in one. They have friends but they were with their ex for so long they do not... |
advice7149 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do I get my creative spark back?"
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"content": "Stop waiting for lightning—start rubbing sticks together.\n\n1. **Lower the bar**: Make 10 minutes of *bad* art daily. Quantity > quality; the spark hides in the reps. \n2. **Change inputs*... |
advice7052 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "My boss was very abusive and I quit my job and am moving on to a new one. I was incredibly unhappy and felt like I was being held back in my old job. I am now relieved to be free of that situation but the old job was very secure and paid well but the new job is much less secure... |
advice6878 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have been employed at the same company for nearly a decade. I've had various roles there. The firm has good benefits and competitive pay, but feels stagnant in terms of my career growth. I've been looking at other job opportunities, but have some doubts about making the move ... |
advice6576 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have been thinking about leaving a goal I have been working on for 3 years and it is not working out. I set the goal because I thought it would be good for me but in reality it is not. I am unsure if I should stick with it and try harder or just let it go."
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"content": "A close friend has been considering moving to a rural area to start life over after a painful breakup. She mentioned she feels drawn to the peace and tranquility of the countryside, but I have concerns about her leaving behind everything familiar. What thoughts or advice do you... |
advice7636 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am a 30-year-old man who has come to realize that I no longer find meaning or fulfillment in my current job. It's a successful career but I dread going to work every day. I do have skills that could be transferred to other industries, but I don't know where to start looking. ... |
advice7103 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "My close friend is going through a hard time, and I'm not sure how to approach them about it. They've lost their job and are struggling financially. They've become withdrawn and isolated, not wanting to talk to anyone about their situation. I care about them deeply and want to ... |
advice7051 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "My boss was very abusive and I quit my job and am moving on to a new one. I was incredibly unhappy and felt like I was being held back in my old job. I am now relieved to be free of that situation but the old job was very secure and paid well but the new job is much less secure... |
advice6729 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "I have always dreamed of becoming a writer, but I have struggled to make a career out of it. I've managed to publish a few pieces here and there, but it's been tough to make ends meet. I'm considering taking a more stable job to support myself while I continue to write on the s... |
advice7363 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I was previously working at a job I didn't like for 4 years before I moved on to a different role. Now I love my new job, however, I keep thinking about the years I wasted at the old job. How could I move on from this."
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"role": "assistant",
"content": "Those fo... |
advice8125 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I have to choose between two job offers: one in a well-established company with average pay, where I can work from home, and another in a startup with a higher salary, but I'll have to commute to an office daily. Both roles are in my field, and I'm interested in them, but I'm h... |
advice7527 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am struggling with making a career decision. I am deciding between three different job opportunities in different cities with each having their own unique pros and cons. Job A is in the city I currently reside in and has a lower salary but is very stable and safe. Job B is in... |
advice7681 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am currently trying to make a decision between two job opportunities and I would love some guidance. Both jobs are very appealing in their own unique ways. Opportunity A is with a company I have been wanting to work for for years and is in an industry that I am truly passiona... |
advice8038 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How do I develop self-discipline without depriving myself of things I enjoy in life? Finding the balance between achieving my goals and enjoying the process is challenging, and I often feel I must give up the things that bring happiness to focus on my objectives."
},
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... |
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"content": "I recently moved back home after being in the military. I am trying to get use to civilian life. But I am still feeling uneasy about being back home. What can I do to adjust?"
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"role": "assistant",
"content": "Civilian terrain doesn’t come with a map—so draw you... |
advice8158 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"role": "user",
"content": "I'm struggling between 2 very different career options. On one hand I have an offer for a job that is very secure and stable, has regular 9 to 5 hours, and decent pay, but is not very fulfilling and would require me to do lots of paperwork. On the other hand I have an opportuni... |
advice7142 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am a 35-year-old woman who has been in a relationship for six years. We have one 4-year-old son together, but lately, my boyfriend and I have been having some problems. He isn't working and hasn't been helping out with household chores and childcare as much as he used to. I h... |
advice8673 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "How to recognize when a midlife crisis is happening to you or someone else"
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"content": "**Midlife Crisis Radar – Quick & Dirty:**\n\n**You:**\n- *\"Is this it?\"* on repeat. \n- Nostalgia hits like a freight train—old playlists, exes, Goog... |
advice8648 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "I am working as a software engineer for 6 years now and I am thinking about switching to a product management role. I feel I have hit a technical plateau and want to use my knowledge in a different area. I am worried how people will perceive me and how do I know I will be good ... |
advice9760 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "To what extent should a health professional help someone on their path to self discovery?"
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"content": "Help them *see*, not *become*. \nHold the lamp, don’t walk the road. \nYour job is to keep the process safe and honest—mirror their que... |
advice8165 | smoltalk_multi_advice_seeking | [
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"content": "My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. They dated for three years. What can I say to her? \n\nShe initiated the breakup but I feel she's still in love with him deep down and that she only ended it because she felt it was for the best."
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"role": "assistant",
... |
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